Really? Lets just call it conditional!

Ever pondered definition of unconditional love? Ever ask around for friends definition of unconditional love? I have and it varies from people to people.
If the ideology and definition for unconditional love is so PERFECT?RIGHT? JUST? why does it differ? Love is a wonderful thing. Opening up your heart and loving without asking for something in return is too ideal right? I agree and respect that everyone has different definitions of love, sacrifice, etc. But I feel it's almost like a lot of people spend too much time defining and talking about what these are instead of just doing it. If we could just love and give from our hearts, so what if we have expectations and "conditions"? We are all humans, we're not perfect, it's only in an ideal world that we have "unconditional" love. In the strictest sense of the word, even parental love is conditional. But is such love a "lesser" kind of love? Is doing 100 loving and giving acts that are "conditional" less than 1 act of "unconditional" love? Just because someone doesn't love you the way you have defined love, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. Will you reject love (from others or even yourself) if it doesn't match up to your definition? Accept love for what it is, not for what it could be or what it means....